Remedy for heartaches~~

It is true that when You focus on what you want, which is refusing to let that person go, that person will only become more irritated. no remedy for that already.. once you push him/her too far towards the edge, or even over it, it's the end.. only a slight chance of being normal hi-bye friends..

But allow me to tell You this..love is NOT about possession..the greatest love of all is to see the person HAPPY.. that is the most important thing and the MOST joyful moments.. To love someone is to cherish someone.. To love someone is to keep praying for her happiness.. in her daily activities and her walk with GOD.. Feelings are just feelings.. But when You placed feelings with the WORD of GOD together.. You'll soon realised that love is about giving.. and giving with an unconditional heart.. Love bears no hatred of evil.. Love remembers no harm.. Love overcomes sorrow and pain.. That's why when people say it's the END of everything.. My answer to them is No.. It isn't.. In fact, it's only the start of a new beginning.. No relationship or friendship is always smooth-sailing.. There'll be time when there are ups and downs.. The only difference is how You want to treat the matter and the person.. The relationship/friendship is only a matter.. But the person is after all a person.. Do you really want to hurt him/her that badly?? Everyone is after all a human.. We all have feelings.. But do not let your emotions and thinking make You become another person.. Learn to be patient with another.. Be forgiving.. You never know what is on his/her mind at that time.. One time foolishness is not the END of everything.. If he/she is truely reprentant, We as Christian..should exercise our love by forgiving him/her.. If we don't, what more can you expect from an Enemy?? That is why love is so uniquely specially and wonderful gift from GOD o Almighty..

Some of you guys must be wondering why am I writing all these.. Because that someone special has stirred my inner heart to reply to her opinion of love.. And that is what the world today THINKs about love.. once you loses it.. it's over.. But when we have Christ in our lives.. Love never fails~~ amen.. Because love brings hope, patient, kind and other fruits of the Spirit together.. It teaches us how to be forgiving and learning.. That is why we're different from the worldly thinking.. So there's no such thingy as called slight chance of being hi-bye friend.. Friends are always friends if you CHOOSE to be.. You have the ability to choose not a MUST or a 100% always-sure-this way-outcome.. How the outcome will be depends on what you CHOOSE not depending on the circumstances.. Why!? Because you have a choice, 2 options..Accept or Reject.. Remember that =)

We're a HOLY nation, a ROYAL priesthood, tongue and tribe..That we may see HIS glory shines through us.. Grace be upon you, my fellow brothers and sisters.. Agape~~

3.10 more to go~~ And the feeling of loving someone is just so great..Gosh~~ I think I am just lovesick when I'm really started to think.. Heh (guys out there.. forgive me if you don't understand this..haha)